Monday, August 24, 2009

Very busy week

As usual, we've been pretty busy. This past week, though, my family was in from NY enjoying the end of the summer before the school year starts.

Actually, I'll start with a week ago Sunday, before they got in. We played at the Plum Creek Presbyterian Church Praise Fest. It went pretty well! It was blazing hot and even I was find in just a tank top and shorts in the evening. If I'm not cold you know it's really hot out. I played bass for the 2nd time, on the U2 song, Magnificent. My hands were sliding around because I was sweating from the heat. I don't know how our bass player, Jay, played the rest of the songs! I think that is one of my favorite places to play because we can play music with more rhythm and volume. Although they need a new keyboard- it randomly let go of the sustain function so we ran home to get mine and let the rest of the bands use mine.

My parents came in on Monday. They typically camp about 15-20 minutes away from our house. I think it actually works better for both of us. They have their own space (and are getting used to their camper) and we don't have to worry about getting ready for work quietly in the morning during the week. Monday night we went to the camper and had dinner there, then played a game of Phase 10. I used to be good at that game and now I'm pretty bad at it! I lost for sure, even though we didn't end up finishing the game.

Tuesday I had a dentist appointment but after that I met my parents for a tailgate by PNC Park and Heinz Field, and then we went to see the Pirates, who actually won! (They had a 5 game winning streak last week and actually swept the Brewers.) Dave and Don were also there. Dave used some free tickets and coincidentally my parents picked the same weekend without knowing it.

Wednesday was my parents' 31st wedding anniversary and we celebrated with them at the Hofbrauhaus. I love that place. Here's a picture of Allison, me, and Dave. Oh and I should mention, Dave took a vacation day and the 4 of them went to the Steelers training camp during the day.

And the happy couple. I hope they don't mind this picture. I have some of them with beer in their hands (toasting, etc.) but I like this one because it's spontaneous.

Thursday my parents left and Allison was at our house by herself until I got home from work. We laid low and just cooked out and played some video games on the Wii. Allison is awesome at Mario Kart (taught us some tricks) and she and I kick butt at Guitar Hero. It's great to be able to play with someone else who can play expert.
I took a vacation day on Friday to spend some time with Allison. Our plans really changed though. She wanted to go to the Carnegie Science Center. I said that was ok, so we drove down. It was weird- the whole way down she had her eyes closed, sleeping. I figured she was just tired. As soon as we pulled in and parked, she said she felt sick. We started to walk in towards the bathroom, and she didn't even make it in the door. Poor kid, she actually threw up. After that, she said she felt better, so we got in line. Thank goodness (for once...) it was really long. We were almost to the front (about half an hour into the wait) and she said she didn't feel good again. I let her decide and she wanted to go home. She threw up again on the way home and spent the rest of the day and about half of Saturday in bed. I felt so bad for her.
She did pull out of it Saturday about mid afternoon and we took her to the Heinz History Center. They had the Vince Lombardi trophies (Super Bowl) displayed publicly for a limited time. I wish I had remembered that when my parents were here, my dad would have died.
Here are Allison and I, getting as close as we can!

Then we went to Spaghetti Warehouse. When Allison ate, she finally felt much better.
The rest of the time we played more video games, and then I met my parents halfway (actually closer to Pittsburgh) to exchange Allison to get her back to Corning. Usually we meet in State College but it was move in weekend and we decided that would be too crowded, so we met at an Arby's off of an exit on I-80.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Corning visit

We haven't been to my parents' in awhile and this past weekend was one of two free weekends the whole summer. (I know, we're really busy this summer, right?!)


Friday Dave took a half day and I left half an hour early, so we left our house with enough time that we actually got to my parents and didn't go to bed right away. We spent a good amount of the weekend learning Mario Kart tips from Allison. LOL.


We don't usually have a whole lot of time when we go- it's a little less than a 5 hour drive to Corning from our house, so we get there typically late Friday, have Saturday there, go to church Sunday, eat brunch, and head back home. So we try to capitalize on the Saturdays.


This weekend we decided to check out Watkins Glen and the Seneca Lake area. We drove by the racetrack- they have the big NASCAR race in two weeks- Dave would like to go to that someday. I went to the track once for a smaller race and was completely bored. :) Maybe it will be better now that I'm older. We'll find out one of these days, I'm sure.


We wanted to walk the gorge- it's beautiful and I think the last time I was there was right around when we graduated from college; I went with Miheer and Susan just to go do something fun and we got some great pictures. I'm going to have to find them later.


Anyway, we didn't go there right away- one of the main things we wanted to do was check out a winery called Wagner's. Here's a link: http://www.wagnervineyards.com/ Anyway, I guess it's known for really good food, but now only serves lunch. By the time we got there, it was mid to late afternoon, so we just did tasting. The best part about Wagner? The beer! It turns out they are maybe better known for their beer than their wine. So the 5 of us (Dave, my parents, Allison and me) went to the beer tasting part. For $1 you got to sample about 8 of their beers and they gave you a decent amount to sample. I tried all of them but one, and between my parents and myself we got a case of beer. Dave and I got the honey wheat and the pilsner. Oh and Allison got root beer for free while we were sampling the beer.


Dave and I still wanted to try wine, so for $1 we got to sample about 6 wines. I didn't really care for any of them but their special, Alta B was on sale and Dave liked it so we did buy a bottle of that.


On the way to Wagner's, I had seen a winery called Penguin Bay that looked really neat and made me (of course) immediately think Pittsburgh Penguins. LOL. So my parents stopped there for us on the way back to the gorge. Dave and I did sampling there (maybe a bad idea before walking a gorge but we did it anyways). For $2 you could choose 8 wines to sample. I liked their wines a lot better. Plus, who can beat the labels?! So cute! And for every bottle of wine sold, a portion of the proceeds is donated to a zoo in Syracuse, NY towards the Humbolt penguins.


So check these labels out:


We bought 3 bottles of this, because it was buy 2 get 1 free and we really liked it. And it fits in with the music theme we used for our wedding and some of the decorating in our house.






We also bought a bottle of this- a sweeter wine but I liked it and so did Dave.


After the wineries, we did walk part of the gorge. However, it started to rain and my parents suggested we turn back. Luckily, we did. We went to a restaurant to eat (in Watkins Glen) and it ended up pouring, so that was a good choice.

I'm hoping we'll get to go back again sometime. I forgot how pretty the gorge is and I'd like to walk the whole thing.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Dave's family's visit

Dave's dad, step mom (Darlene), sister (Darci), and brother (Damian) were in this weekend. Actually, they came in before July 4th, stayed for a few days (went to Kennywood for a little bit with us), went to Ohio to visit Darlene's family, and then came back again.

Dave went to the zoo with them on Thursday and then a bunch of the family came over for a cookout that night. I couldn't go to the zoo because I couldn't take time off of work at that point, but seeing everyone at our house afterwards was fun.

Damian spent the night Thursday night. Dave took Friday off (I couldn't take vacation on Friday either) and I think they spent most of the time playing video games. Boys... LOL

Darci spent the night Friday night. We went for a pedicure (love those!) and then did some shopping. My flip flops were too big for her; they kept falling off her feet, so her first priority was getting some flip flops that fit. She found some cute ones at Victoria's Secret. I should have known they make flip flops. Then we went to see the Proposal. It turns out it was filmed near where they live, in Rockport, Massachusetts. That area is sooo pretty!

Dave and I took Darci to play mini golf inside on Saturday and of course did just a little more shopping. I got a shirt I really like for $6! And I've already worn it once. It's not an appropriate shirt for work, so I was a little anxious about spending the money. We're trying to not spend as much and save more but I think I will get a lot of use out the shirt outside of work so I feel better about it. Plus it was only $6.

Then we went to Sara's graduation party. (Dave's niece). She just graduated from high school. We brought our Ladderball game and had a blast.

I had a lot of fun with Darci and with I could have spent some more time with Damian, as well as with Dave's dad and Darlene. It's nice to see them- we don't get to very often.

That sounds like a full weekend right there but on Sunday we played a concert at Twin Lakes park. The weather was absolutely beautiful. I can't believe this summer so far. Not really too hot, and we can leave the windows open most nights.

I collapsed into bed Sunday night, exhausted. Our weekends are always so full!

Monday, July 6, 2009

My weekend with my sister

My sister Megan (the one who is closer in age) was in for the weekend. I'm really glad she came to visit.

Thursday we went to a Pirates game. She hadn't ever seen the Pirates and they had a make up game from a rain out. It was a rainy day and they ended up losing, but we had fun! The game was close, there was a good amount of offense, and it went into extra innings. We tailgated beforehand and ended up sitting in the car waiting out the rain until we went into the game. PBJ and beer, yum yum!

On Friday, Jackie, Dave, Megan, and I went to Kennywood. East Winds had a concert in the evening and we got 4 free tickets each (including tickets for ourselves) to the park. It was REALLY crowded, which was surprising because it was raining in the morning. We got on all the coasters though, and had Potato Patch fries, among other things. (Megan's favorite was Dippin Dots I think.) Later, Dave's family was also there and they watched the concert too. We saw Dave's dad, step-mom, Darci, Damien, Heather, Larry, Beth, and Milo.

Saturday we slept in because we were exhausted from being so busy. Then we went to John and Aleta's house for a picnic/birthday celebration for both of them! That night we set off some legal fireworks in our backyard (some of the grass is black, haha) and Jackie, Steph, and Sara were over to watch that. I got the fire extinguisher out when I saw how close some of the fireworks were to the one bush in the back. We're getting landscaping done anyways, so if the bush had been burned down I wouldn't have cared but I didn't want to set the house on fire! LOL.

Then Sunday after an early lunch Megan headed home. We'll miss her- she's about to move to Savannah, GA, which is more than the 5 hour drive to Corning. It was nice for the last 3-4 years that she was closer, and able to spend a few weekends with us.

Dave's family is in Ohio right now but we'll see them this week/weekend, which should be a little fun. After that, I'm trying to get my other sister Allison out here for a weekend!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

I am a Developer

I took a personality test at work and determined that I am what would be called a developer. It was interesting, because it really does fit me. I’m not sure if this is good or bad but it definitely fits me. Here’s the description from the book. I put in bold what I feel fits me to a T, although most of this actually is pretty true for me.

Developer Pattern
(High Dominance, Low Influence, Low Steadiness, Neutral Conscientiousness)

Emotions: is concerned with meeting personal needs
Goal: new opportunities
Judges others by: ability to meet the Developer’s standards
Influences others by: finding solutions to problems, projecting a personal sense of power
Value to the organization: avoids “passing the buck”; seeks new or innovative problem-solving methods
Overuses: control over people and situations to accomplish his or her own results
Under pressure: works alone to complete tasks; is belligerent if individualism is threatened or challenging opportunities disappear
Fears: boredom; loss of control
Would increase effectiveness through: patience, empathy; participation and collaboration with others; follow-through and attention to quality control

Developers tend to be strong-willed individualists, continually seeking new horizons. As self-reliant, independent thinkers, they prefer to find their own solutions. Relatively free of the constraining influence of the group, Developers are able to bypass convention and often create innovate solutions.

Although they most often use direct, forceful behavior, Developers can also shrewdly manipulate people and situations. When required to participate with others in situations that limit their individualism, Developers tend to become belligerent. They are persistent when pursuing the results they desire and will do whatever is necessary to overcome obstacles to success. In addition, they have high expectations of others and can be critical when their standards are not met.

Developers are most interested in achieving their own goals. Opportunities for advancement and challenge are important to them. By focusing on results, they may lack empathy or seem uncaring by dismissing others’ concerns.

I laughed out loud when I saw the statement on needing to follow-through and pay attention to quality control. Wow, does that sound like my first few performance reviews when I started working out of college. They said I worked quickly but need to double check my work. Actually, that reminds me of growing up and taking tests. I was a fast test taker, but I never checked my work and would lose points on silly, stupid mistakes I should have caught.

The only thing that doesn’t jive here is the fact that I am pretty introverted and until I get comfortable in a situation or with people, I’m really quiet. So most people don’t realize how I really am.

Friday, June 12, 2009

FIRSTthursday

I'm learning bass! Kind of. I played violin for 12 years growing up, so I'm used to the feel of it, but bass isn't exactly the same as violin.

First, the strings are backwards. On the violin, from left to right they are G-D-A-E. On the bass (and lowest strings on the guitar) it's E-A-D-G from left to right.

Second, wow, the strings are pretty heavy. When I played violin, I had callouses from pushing down on the string. But these strings are much worse and I no longer have callouses. So I got indentations on my fingers just from playing one song.

So I'm pretty excited about trying something new. Hopefully I can learn it well enough to actually play when we're out at church services or festivals.

Monday, April 20, 2009

1st anniversary!

Dave and I celebrated our first anniversary yesterday. It's hard to believe a whole year has passed already. Just shows you that we're good together, I think. :)

We celebrated by going to the Southside Works. We went to see Adventureland at the movie theater. It was filmed at Kennywood in Pittsburgh. It was an ok movie. Then we went to Cheesecake Factory. Dave had never been there before. The food was delicious and of course we got a slice of cheesecake (to share). Then the Penguins played their 3rd playoff game and we had a beer at the brand new restaurant (beer garden), Hofbrauhaus. It's not the best place to watch a game although the German atmosphere is pretty cool.

That was all in the early afternoon. So our dinner was year old frozen wedding cake. I figured it would taste disgusting but it was actually pretty good! I was surprised. Even the icing, and the raspberry filling in the middle. We didn't eat any cake at our reception except what we fed each other, so it was nice to have some of the cake. The rest is still in our refrigerator, so I'm sure I'll be eating more later this week.

Love you, Dave! Happy anniversary! Many more to come... :)

Monday, March 30, 2009

March - bad luck?

March has been a pretty bad month for me. I'm so glad it's almost over. I'm trying to figure out if 30 is bringing on the bad luck, or it's just the month of March. :)

So I turned 30 on February 27... And since then, the following has happened.

March 5: I was in Heinz History Center and a lady backed into my car in the parking lot, causing about $800 in damage. It could have been worse, and for whatever reason, she actually reported it so I was able to get it repaired via her insurance.

March 14: My grandma passed away, following my grandpa by about 6 months. She was ready to go but will be sorely missed.

March 25: Driving away from the body shop, having fixed the damage from March 5, I was confused where I was and made a wrong turn. Trying to backtrack, I tried to turn left at a very dangerous intersection and got into a pretty bad accident. Although, I am lucky. I hesitated before I tried to enter the intersection, and if I hadn't, I would probably be in the hospital right now because the truck that hit me and sheered off the front of my car would have hit the driver side of my car.

March 29: Dave's mom went back into the hospital again.

Actually, looking back, almost all of these had somewhat of a positive spin on them, or could have been worse. And Dave and I had a nice trip to New Orleans. He was there for a conference and I tagged along for part of the week again.

But still, I'm really glad March is almost over. I'm hoping things will look better in April. Dave and I have our first anniversary to look forward to, on April 19!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Twilight

I just watched the movie Twilight last night after reading all 4 books that are out in the series. I would highly recommend reading the book before seeing the movie. I think too many details are missing from the movie for it to really mean a whole lot.

With that said, disclaimer: There may be spoilers in the rest of this blog. I loved the books and have read Twilight twice now, along with the draft of Edward's point of view of Twilight, so I can't remember what might be a spoiler.

I got the books from a friend of mine who read the series but didn't care for it. So I wasn't sure if I would like it at all, but I am an avid reader so I decided to try it. I ended up loving the series. I am a sucker for romance and I think the books were well written. The target is young adult but they are well written for that genre. The story flows well, it's easy to read, and I like the plot. Out of the books, the 2nd was my least favorite by far although I did like the series on a whole.

Getting back to the movie. I was really disappointed. For anyone who hasn't and won't read it, it's about a human girl and a vampire boy (high school age) who end up falling in love. Basic story there. In the movie, they skip all the build up of them wondering about each other, getting to know each other, etc. If I hadn't read the book, I would have wondered why they even got together.

It's also missing the chemistry- the fact that they do kiss and he pulls away and she keeps pushing for more. There are a lot of details that are missing: she makes dinner for her dad and that's emphasized in the book and not even mentioned in the movie, how she finds out he's a vampire is different, they skip school a lot, you don't see her getting to be friends with Alice... The list goes on. I was also very disappointed in who they cast as actors for the roles. Bella is very monotone and boring. Edward... ok what is up with his hair? Jacob is nothing like I pictured. And I am not discriminatory, but this takes place in a small town outside Seattle. I come from a small town and it was primarily white. They have a very diverse mixture of people in the movie. It's ok but not what I expected.

More differences from the book- the scene in the hospital (after Edward saves Bella from the van), Edward isn't in the room with her and some of that conversation is missing and downplayed, plus she didn't actually hit her head when he threw her back from the van. Speaking of hitting her head, the scene in the ballet classroom is different too. Well, James still throws her in the glass but I thought she hit her head really hard. Also, Victoria, James, and Laurent didn't show up in the book until the baseball game. What are they going to do in the 2nd movie, have a repeat of animals killing people? Finally, Bella is really clumsy and that hardly comes across in the movie. That was big as well in the books.

Most of the movie I could point out tons of details that were missing or different. I think that's what disappointed me most. I don't think this was even a decent representation of the book.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Tribute

In the last 3 years or so, I have lost 3 of my 4 grandparents. Since I moved to Pittsburgh, I haven’t seen them very often and sometimes I feel a little regret that I didn’t see them more. I wanted to write down some memories I have of them. I do really miss them, and, although I know they’re in a better place, I don’t want to forget my memories.

Grandma R (born 1918, passed away March 14, 2009)

-Grandma and I used to play piano duets, especially Scott Joplin rags. I always played the melody and she played the boom chuck on the bottom.
-Grandma would send me peanut butter rice krispie treats in the mail at college and after I moved to Pittsburgh. She knew I loved them.
-I used to help clean the antique dishes that were on top of the cupboards in the kitchen. I would climb on the counters and get them down. Grandma would tell me what they were from (and which ones were Grandpa’s favorites) as she washed them, and I would dry them and then arrange them differently over the cupboards. I have one of the vases that was up there. She gave it to me when they moved out of the house into an apartment.
-The women/girls of the family went to an annual Mother’s Day banquet. We ate on a tea set every year and I have that tea set now.
-Grandma made me angel food cake with my favorite frosting ever. I think it was difficult to make but she knew I loved it so she made a point to make that frosting if the cake was for me.
-We used to play games together. Scrabble, dominoes, things like that.

Grandpa R (born 1914, passed away late September 22, 2008)

-Grandpa used to take his false teeth out just to gross me out. I still shudder.
-I remember when he played the saw and all his other weird instruments.
-In his basement, he had a little workshop. He used to poke holes in my belts because I was too skinny for them and that way they would fit.
-When I would spend the night, he would make scrambled eggs. Dad’s were much better, but I smothered Grandpa’s in ketchup and ate them anyways.
-Every evening he watched the same news stories and shows and I can still picture him falling asleep in his chair with his mouth open.
-With Grandma, we would go visit the cemeteries on Memorial Day to water flowers, etc. One year they put their own headstone in. Being the kid I was, I had a camera and told Grandpa to pose next to his future headstone. He laughed and said sure. Grandma said it was morbid but he thought it was funny.

Grandpa T (born 1929(?), passed away February 24, 2006)
Video tribute: http://videos.yourtribute.com/viewtribute.asp?fh=HaugheyFH&mv=Thurkins.html
-I struggled (and still do) with improvising in jazz band (and now our worship band). Grandpa tried to help me. He played saxophone and I played his little keyboard. He would play to demonstrate what he would do to improvise and I would try myself. He never put me down, always encouraged me.
-Being from Pittsburgh, he always rooted for the Steelers and Pirates, and is a big part of the reason I am part of the Steeler Nation. And a big part of the reason I ended up in the Pittsburgh area.
-On my 16th birthday, he embarrassed me by asking in front of everyone if I had been kissed yet. (The answer was no and I don’t think I ever did admit it out loud.)
-We spent all our holidays with Grandma and Grandpa because they lived across the street. Grandpa used to hide Easter Eggs for all the grandkids. He would also give out chocolate bunnies as “prizes” and came up with a reason for each of us to get our “prize”.
-Grandma and Grandpa owned a bed and breakfast. We used to run over there for breakfast some mornings on the weekends.

I have many more memories and I will never forget my grandparents. They have also instilled ethics and a musical background and made me the person I am today.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

New Orleans

We got back from New Orleans last night. It was a good trip! We heard that it was dryer than usual. This whole month has been pretty dry and the only day it rained was Saturday, our last day there.

Some highlights of the trip:
Bourbon Street: I know some people have been there and can't stand it. But we like that kind of thing. Well, some of it. It was a unique street. TONS of bars and some strip clubs throughout it, as well as souvenir stores and restaurants. And one of the best things about New Orleans in general was the fact that you can carry an alcoholic beverage around with you. And we forgot it's almost St. Patrick's Day, so this was considered a holiday weekend. It was pretty crazy! Probably the best drink was the Grenade, which had grain alcohol in it and was pretty tasty.

Preservation Hall: This, well, it was kind of a highlight for me because it made me feel like I was in the old days of New Orleans. My parents recommended that we go to a bar next door called Pat O'Briens to get a hurricane (the signature drink) so we would enjoy the music at Preservation Hall better. We went to Pat O'Brien's first and had a hurricane, but did some other things in between. Anyway, this jazz group played in the front and literally everyone was squished in, enjoying the music. They played three sets of 45 minutes each with 15 minutes in between to let people go out and new people come in. You could stay if you wanted (and there was a charge to get in). We were in for the 2nd set and decided to leave because it was so crowded. The music was decent, and the atmosphere was great. And yes, I say that even though I was annoyed by the woman behind me who kept touching my butt (Dave says with her purse so she didn't know).

Cemeteries: We took two cemetery tours. One of the Lafayette Cemetery No 1 in the garden district and the second of the St. Louis Cemetery No. 1. The Garden District tour was themed with ghost tales and we saw a number of celebrity houses in the Garden District area, including Ann Rice, the Mannings (Archie, Peyton, and Eli), Nicholas Cage, and the house filmed in The Curious Case of Benjamin Button. At each one the guide told us the store of the ghosts in the house. Well, with the exception of the Mannings' house. They didn't have a ghost story associated. Also, Lafayette Cemetery No. 1 is the cemetery used in a lot of films: Interview with a Vampire, Double Jeopary, etc. It was closed when we were there so we only saw it from the outside. The St. Louis Cemetery No. 1 tour was combined with VooDoo, which is actually the combination of the Roman Catholic religon and the South African religon. Also, the cemetery scenes from Easy Rider were filmed in St. Louis Cemetery No. 1, which is what made the Catholic church ban films from being produced in that cemetery. I'll post pictures from St. Louis Cemetery No. 1 later.

We also saw the St. Louis Cathedral, which was beautiful, and walked the French Market near the Mississippi River. We didn't buy anything; it was a flea market.

And we saw a St. Patrick's Day parade Friday night on our way to Coyote Ugly, and got some free beads from the parade! And no, I did NOT flash for them.

We did a LOT of walking and because it was warm out, I of course sun burned. But I had sunglasses on so it was just my nose. I now look like Rudolph the Red Nosed reindeer, lol!

I'll post pictures when they're on Dave's laptop and I can get online.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

long time!

Sorry about not posting for awhile although I'm not sure I have many faithful followers anyways. :)

Dave is currently packing for New Orleans, he's going there for work this week. I'll join him Wednesday night. I'm excited about the short work week!

Lots of things have happened. I turned 30 (yikes!) and will post pictures soon. I should post more pictures in general here, but they're on Dave's laptop and I don't use it very much. He's taking his laptop with him, so the earliest you will see anything with pictures is later this week.

On my actual birthday (which was a Friday), Dave, Megan, Jackie, Bruce and I went to Carson Street for a bar crawl. We started at Primanti's to get some dinner (and of course drink some beer) and went from there to: Bar 11, Jack's, Carson City Saloon (might have screwed up the name) and Tiki Lounge. Someone tell me if I missed one. Mandy joined us at the Tiki Lounge, too.

The next day we had a party at a fire hall, and a good number of people showed up! Thanks to everyone who did. :) I have a good group of friends. Megan (my sister) and I were still decorating when the first guests showed up so we got some help. I hate being the center of attention and I avoided it for the most part.

I presented at work for an information session and was really nervous. It showed. I didn't start out too well, but got comfortable. I need to continue doing this so that my nerves calm down a bit. I know I will do 10X better at the next one! They had a dinner at the Heinz History Center, so Kyra (who also presented) and I went and it was fun. We didn't get to see much of the museum though, so I want to go back.

And the worst part was when I got back to my car- someone had hit it, and a cop left his business card in my window. So thank goodness, the lady actually left her information. I'm currently working on getting an estimate (got one that was $800 and she decided to go through insurance so now I have to get another one through the insurance company). She did hit it decently hard, for being in a parking lot, and it damaged some stuff internally. Not anything major, thank goodness, but it's not just a matter of replacing the bumper. It's weird because if I were to take a picture of it; other than the emblem being missing and some scratches, it really doesn't look bad. But looking internally you can see the energy absorber crushed and one of the brackets to hold the front is broken. Maybe I'll try to take a picture and post that, too.

Alright, that's enough to catch up on right now. Dave and I are busy as usual- it seems like we don't have any free nights anymore!

Friday, February 20, 2009

One week

...away from turning 30! I feel old already. :)

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Pittsburgh Girls

I really liked this forward so I decided to post it.

A Pittsburgh girl knows just as much about football as her guy friend in some cases, even more.

She drinks beer because it tastes good but knows when to be classy and drink something more sophisticated.

She owns a Steeler jersey not just because it's cute but because she supports her team and understands the game.

She loves Kennywood and isn't afraid to order cheese fries from the Potato Patch because, let's face it......... Pittsburgh girls wear winter coats and scarves a lot more than bikinis and flip flops.

A Pittsburgh girl loves St. Patrick's Day, even if she's not Irish because green beer is good for the soul.

Pittsburgh girls don't have a funny accent. They just speak a different language. The word yinz is dear to her heart, even if she would never say it herself.

A Pittsburgh girl bleeds black and gold and knows how to have a great time.

She's stylish and sweet. She has a great education and loves her friends and family.

A Pittsburgh girl goes to church on Sunday hung over, only to be let out by the priest early because the Steelers kick off at one.

A Pittsburgh girl might not live by the beach, but the Three Rivers are just as good!

She has seen all four seasons and has a reason to love and hate each of them.

She's the type of girl you can call late at night and spill your heart out to.

She's the type you can take home to Mom and Dad without worrying they won't like her. Because everyone loves a Pittsburgh girl.

If you need a girl to take to the game, she'll be there.

If you need a friend to help you out, she's there.

If you need a drinking buddy, she'll be there with her IC Light in hand.

You can take the girl out of Pittsburgh , but you can never take the Pittsburgh out of the girl!!!!!

Monday, January 19, 2009

Super Bowl XLIII

I am so excited, the Steelers beat the Ravens in the AFC Championship. In 2 weeks they will play the Cardinals in the Super Bowl in Tampa! Yay Steelers!!!!! Can we be the first to reach 6?

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Yay Steelers!

They just beat San Diego and I'm excited. AFC Championship, here we come!

Saturday, January 10, 2009

China recap

I sent this via email a few weeks after I got back from China. Some more people have been asking about my experience and I figured I would post it here.

The best word I can describe my trip to China is intense. It was a working trip, and it was definitely work. Long days, not much sleep, etc. I made up for the lack of sleep when I got back- I arrived after midnight on Tuesday (two days earlier than we originally planned) and wasn't back on Pittsburgh time and caught up on sleep until Saturday morning. Friday night was the first night I really slept all night, without the use of Tylenol PM (which I took Tuesday night after I got back to make sure I would sleep). The meetings themselves gave me a real perspective on the Chinese. We are selling the design to the Chinese so that they can build more plants themselves. We are contracted to build 4 plants over there- 2 at one site and 2 at another. So the Chinese need to understand the plant design so they can build it. We had the Chinese who will basically have the design on our side of the table, and the regulators on the other. The regulators and customer would talk back and forth in Chinese for a bit and if the customer couldn't answer a question because they didn't know or needed clarification, they would talk to us in english. We would explain back, and they would translate back and a conversation in Chinese would ensue again. It was very interesting. When the meeting was over, we had questions that we had to clarify ourselves, and that was when our real work began. We would contact our coworkers in China and try to answer the issue or find the background. I had some telephone conferences and things like that, and my phone bill is going to be really bad this month. (I was able to use my cell phone, which we also used during the meetings themselves, but it was $2 a minute.)

Although we flew into Shanghai, most of the time we were 3-5 hours outside of Shanghai. We drove to a town outside the first site and stayed there first. The meetings were held at site, which was about a half hour bus ride, one way, each day. This town (I can't remember the name) was being built but wasn't quite there yet. It had a neat little park with a lake and lots of construction. That was my biggest complaint about sleeping- they had construction going 24 hours a day (and not just here- there was construction everywhere we went in China!). I am a light sleeper to begin with, so hearing "wham" every few minutes certainly didn't help. (Neither did the hard beds, haha!) The other thing I found out very quickly is that they smoke like fiends over there! One of my coworkers from Pittsburgh is originally from China, so he and I walked to this drug store and picked up some allergy medicine. He talked to the store owner in Chinese and we weren't completely sure what we were getting, but it worked so that's all I cared about. I still have some of the pills in our medicine cabinet at home. I break out in hives if I'm exposed to too much smoke, so I really needed something! They didn't smoke in the meeting rooms themselves, but the second you stepped outside, there you were. Blech. And the hotel rooms were smoky as well. I'm not used to that at all! It was difficult communicating in general- other than in Shanghai most Chinese didn't know much english, if at all. For example, in our hotel in Ningbo (where the meetings for the 2nd site were held), I couldn't get the internet to work in my hotel room. I waited until the morning because I was waking up really early, and called the front desk. It took me 3-4 people to get someone who semi knew english. I kept repeating one word, such as "internet" or "computer" and nobody understood that. Finally someone did and said they would send someone up. The guy who came up didn't know english either. He was there for an hour and a half and anytime he needed to talk to me, he would call the front desk to someone who spoke english (again, kind of) and she would tell me what he wanted to say. Finally, she got on the phone and told me my computer was the problem. Who knows. I never had internet there. I couldn't get her to understand that my computer had worked in 3 other hotels already, so I finally just said fine, thank you. The best part? One of my coworkers was across the hall, so I went to use his computer. In China (and Europe) you have to put your key card in a slot by the door to get power in the room. So my key was in the door. I pushed the door to prop it open and turned around to go in my coworker's room. As I walked into his room, I heard the door close shut. Of course, I didn't have my key because it was in the slot, in the room. So I called the front desk from his room, saying "locked out of room" and "room key" to try to get them to understand. I finally got the same woman who had been talking to me, and even though I was calling from a different room, she said "Computer problem?" LOL. Guess she knew who I was at that point. So the 2nd set of meetings was in Ningbo, which is about 3 hours out of Shanghai. Ningbo is considered a town I think, with a million people. Wow. It was huge. This set wasn't quite so intense. Since it was the 2nd site, which is about 6 months behind the first in schedule, a lot of their questions were repeats from the 1st site. There were some heated discussions but the days weren't as long, which was nice. We actually got to have some fun while we were there. One of the Chinese Westinghouse employees ended up hanging out with the 3 of us who were in a group and together most of the time. She took us shopping one day, at a market centered around a pagoda. The market was ok, it had mostly clothes and purses (knock offs) and we didn't buy much. I did find a Chinese brand of purse that I thought was really cute and I bought some purses there. It was named "Bani Rabbit" where Bani is "bunny" with the Chinese accent. Really cute. And we were tired of Chinese food, so we went to Papa Johns for pizza after shopping. That really hit the spot.

Speaking of food, I should describe it. We got wined and dined by the customers and regulators. It was really political. They wanted to show that they have money, and are willing to spend it on us. They threw banquets for us, and the tables were basically a huge lazy susan in the middle. They brought a TON of courses and put them in the middle, and you would move the inside of the table around and put what you wanted on your plate. They had wine, a really potent clear liquor, and orange juice at the table. Anytime you finished any of the 3, they were instantly there, pouring you more. And the owners for the plants kept coming up to have a toast, saying "bottoms up!" so they wanted you to finish it. Because they were trying to show they had money, they ordered a lot of seafood. Tons of kinds- jellyfish, crab, shark, fish with bones in it, who knows what else. It was a TON of food. I don't like seafood, so I was kind of stuck there and didn't eat a whole lot. Even the "normal" foods, like chicken, etc, were interesting. The bone was still in there and cut through so you could see the marrow and the beef did not look like normal beef. So I had a hard time stomaching that stuff as well, just based on the looks. I lived on dumplings and fruit. :) They had watermelon at the end of every single meal. I did try shark fin inadvertently in one of the soups. I didn't care for it too much, and that was before I knew what it was. In Ningbo, we also went to a disco bar, which is their club with dancing. It was mostly male dominated. They were playing drinking games with dice and cups like those in yahtzee, slamming the cup down with the dice in it, and hiding what it was from the other person. Sometimes one of them rerolled, and eventually one of them would do a shot of something that was a mixture of whiskey and tea. They also had a video playing that was pretty risqué. Clothed women (well, scantily clothed) who were pole dancing. Definitely interesting, LOL. I impressed the Chinese with my drinking skills. At the banquet, I was doing shots and some of the Chinese were in awe. And at the disco bar, I threw back the rest of the beer in my hand and apparently one of the Chinese, his jaw dropped and he just stared for awhile, unbelieving. My coworker saw and told me about it afterwards.

We ended up finishing the meetings 2 days early, and the three of us were done earlier than the rest so we kind of snuck back to Shanghai in one of the manager's car (with a driver). The car brought him over for the closeout meeting, and was taking binders back, so we loaded our luggage and went back to Shanghai with him. We did have permission, of one of the managers, although we didn't really ask. We told him we were done, sent our meeting minutes, and said it wasn't worth us sticking around for another day or two. So we changed our flight back from Thursday to Tuesday, which was really exciting. And Monday, we were back in Shanghai for some REAL sight seeing. We went in the Shanghai Financial Center, which is the 2nd highest building in the world. The highest is technically a building in Taipei, but it's only because of an antenna or something. This is the highest observatory in the world. It was amazing. Words and pictures cannot describe it. And Shanghai is usually smoggy, but this was actually a clear day. It was perfect. The city is enormous; you couldn't see where it ended even from up that high. We were also looking for a market that had a good number of seconds (purses). One of my coworkers had been there on a previous trip but all he could remember was that it was near a park. We probably walked, no exaggeration, 3-4 miles, from park to park, looking for it. We never found it. LOL. I know where it is if I go back though- we ended up finding out later from someone else. It was near the airport and we might have seen it but went the wrong direction, headed into the city instead of out, when we started looking. We ended up going to the Pearl Market, which was an experience in of itself. This was where I bought a Burberry purse, which I thought was a second but could be a knock off. They literally had these secret back rooms. You had no clue they were there but when they saw we were American, they opened up this door and you went into this tiny area FILLED with purses. And they closed the door behind you. If you're claustrophobic and ever get a chance to go over to these markets, don't go in these rooms. You can't even turn around in some of them, and have to back out the way you came in, in order to get out.

Oh and before I forget, I need to talk about the bathrooms. Literally, in the floor. First, you had to know to get toilet paper before entering the stall because it wasn't in there. Then, you squatted really low (it did flush but was a hole in the ground) and you couldn't flush toilet paper so you threw it in the wastebasket in the stall. That really disgusted me. Thanks goodness the toilets in the hotel rooms were normal. (But not in the lobbies, those were holes as well!)

It's been awhile!

I really meant to post in here, but I've been so busy that I haven't gotten around to it.

Dave's mom went into the hospital the day after Christmas and is still in there now. She is having some immune system problems, and of course her heart issues complicate everything else. Dave and I have both been worried about her, but it seems like things are under control and we're hoping she will be released early or mid week next week.

A week ago, we drove to Mount Vernon, Ohio for my good friend Carrie's birthday party. She turned 30 in December (on the 18th) and her husband Daniel threw a party for her in January so she wouldn't suspect. She was really surprised! We ended up staying there overnight and it was so nice to spend some time with the two of them and their kids. They have a really nice house, and we got eat Little Caeser's pizza! Yum, I have not had that in soooo long. They don't have any in Pennsylvania or New York.

The trip up there was pretty eventful. First, leaving Pittsburgh, a rock kicked up and hit my windshield. It created a star that we knew would easily expand and we would need to replace the windshield. Dave had it fixed this Monday, so it's ok and won't expand. Then, we were driving on a two lane road in Ohio. Dave was driving, just following the car in front of us. Not tailgating, but keeping pace and enjoying the scenery. A cop passed coming the other direction, and turned around and pulled US over. Because we have Pa license plates. I'm so glad Dave was the one talking, because I might have been acting irate and complaining about being pulled over when we were following someone else! But Dave was nice, just said he didn't know what speed we were going, he was just following behind the car in front of us. We were sure we were going to get a ticket. But, instead, we got a warning. Which was really nice.

And, I have to say, of the two of us, I would be more likely to get a speeding ticket. It was really weird that Dave got pulled over. He wasn't going excessively fast...

Finally, we were driving along and Dave was watching the scenery a bit. There was a pretty big rock in the road. I saw it, but I assumed Dave also saw it and I didn't want to be a backseat driver, so I kept my mouth shut. Dave didn't see it until it was too late, we ran over it, and got an instant flat. My tires are so expensive - $200 each! We got insurance when the tires were replaced in September, and this is the 2nd flat tire I've had. I'm so glad we got insurance. It has now saved us $400 (minus the insurance cost and the alignment we'll need) in less than 6 months. My tires are also unique, so although we dropped off the flat tire so they can put the new one on the rim, the place still hasn't called to say it's ready. Cross your fingers I don't have any problems, because I don't have AAA or anything like that!

My parents were here to visit after Christmas, through New Year's. We spent New Year's Eve with them, at First Night downtown. It is a family type function, so it is a dry event. Jackie ended up meeting us. To go to some of the events, you needed a voucher (which was free but there were limited amounts) and we couldn't get vouchers for a 2nd event for Jackie. So we ended up at Primanti's to have a beer or two while we waited to meet up with my parents and Allison. My favorite thing there were the bagpipes in the Presbyterian Church. It was beautiful. They had a ball drop downtown, and some fireworks go off at midnight.

We will hopefully finally take down our Christmas decorations today. I guess it's ok- we got them up later than usual, so we're taking them down later than usual. We have just been so busy, between hospital visits and the normal stuff, that we haven't had time to do anything like take down decorations.