Monday, January 19, 2015

It's so hard to say goodbye...

I'm writing this post looking forward to some exciting news we have but that honestly also has me sad as well as looking forward to our future.
As of the first week of February, Dave, Neil, and I will be moving to Connecticut because I am changing jobs. I am looking forward to the new opportunity, which seems to be a great fit and looks like it will be both challenging and fun. I much prefer being busy and active at work and I will definitely be getting that in the new job!
With that said, I am going to greatly miss our friends and family in the Pittsburgh area, as well as all the activities and things we have done around the area. I moved here in 2001 for my first job, and have met so many people in the last 13+ years (moved June 2001). I never imagined what my life would be like here when I graduated from college. I grew up a part of Steelers Nation, because of my Dad's side of the family. I was so excited to be moving here and I still remember the awe I felt sitting at PNC Park for my first LIVE baseball game. I just couldn't believe it.
Pittsburgh, I will miss you. I will miss: the Science Center, Zoo, running the hills around here (maybe), Children's Museum, Steelers, Penguins, Pirates, feeling at home in a city, the Pittsburgh Symphony, City Theatre, drinking on Carson Street for birthdays, Halloween, and other bar crawls including putt putt in the bars. There are just too many memories here to name them all. I love this city. It's not a huge city so it isn't overwhelming yet there are so many things to do here.
I can't even start to talk about my friends. I remember how lonely I felt when I first moved here and again when I got divorced, but I have made some really solid friends. Some that I haven't talked to as often since having Neil but who are still there for me and I'm there for them. I know we'll still be there for each other, and I'm thankful for social media like Facebook and this blog (for those who follow it) to let me try to keep up to date with friends and family. I also finally got to know our neighbors and have made a lot of mom friends with kids around Neil's age. I was looking forward to some play dates when on maternity leave with our next kid but hopefully this will allow me to make new friends in the CT area who have kids a similar age.
So goodbye Pittsburgh and hello Connecticut. I have some family and friends, not in the immediate area, and we will still be back to Pittsburgh to visit. I think Connecticut in some ways will feel more like home since it will be more small town. And I am nervous but excited about having a baby with a new practice. I loved the Midwife Center in Pittsburgh but am looking forward to (hopefully) a home birth with midwives in CT who seem to be in a lot of ways similar to what I'm used to. I can't wait to meet our 2nd son, and start this new chapter of our lives.

15 comments:

  1. Proud of you and the new steps you will be taking away from comfort zone (especially for Dave too). Understand how emotional this time must be for you. Thinking of you lots!!

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    1. The pregnancy hormones certainly aren't helping, either! I feel somewhat bad for Dave because of that.

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  2. Wow!! Such great news! I understand being sad about leaving though. It's always hard to do that. You guys will love CT though. I have a friend who lives there and she says it's amazing. I'm also pumped about your (hopeful) home birth! Wow! You go girl!!

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    1. Where in CT does your friend live?

      I will try to blog- I think it will probably quiet down with the new job demands and a 2nd kid but I'm going to do as much as I can. :) I do think the posts will slow down in general though.

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    2. She lives in Madison. Not sure where you're headed? She's a runner and a mom of two girls. She used to blog at Living Like The Kings but lately hasn't been.

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    3. Hmm that is actually where the midwife group is based out of! It's about half an hour from where I will be- in Groton. I'll have to look up her blog! Too bad she isn't posting though.

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  3. Wow! Jen that's so exciting. Congrats on the new job... I'm excited to hear (read) about all your new adventures in CT!!

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    1. Thanks!! This was a great opportunity and I'm nervous but excited about it!

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    1. Thanks! I actually had Dave proof read this one. ;)

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    2. Now incurious how I pisted I was moving. I don't reme doing anything special.

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    3. Yeah I don't remember you posting at all to announce or anything. I remember it was pretty hectic for you at the time.

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    4. auto correct and typos are the worst. (above. Now I'm curious how I posted. I don't remember doing anything special.)

      also here's my first mention I was moving: http://scrapandrun.blogspot.com/2012/06/522-farewell.html

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    5. Oh yeah but it's a work mention.

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    6. Yea. I didn't officially mention. Unless it was buried in another post. I just dropped everything I guess.

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